Sunday, April 5, 2009

Again

I spent last night up until the wee hours of morning so that I'd have a chance to talk to Tere who's quarter-way around the world (she's in Austria which is at GMT + 2) and just to at least catch a glimpse of her to sustain me for the next few days. She's there right now representing the UP College of Law in the Wilhem C. Vis International Private Law Moot Court and I do hope that all who reads this pray for her and her team.

But that is actually not the main topic of this post (tere, forgive me but I have to vent this out). While I was actually talking to tere I was again at my multi-tasking self. I was updating my phone's software, talking to tere, browsing through some long forgotten files in my external hd and of course surfing the net. And I don't know what brought me to it but I went to Friendster just to check it out (yep my friends, it is still alive!) and I was surprised to see a friend commenting on another friend's photo. The photo had two of my friends eating something in the beach and boy was i surprised. These were the ones I supposedly called my close friends and none of them had the gall to invite me to this beach outing. With my rationalising self I came out with possible explanations and of course I gave all of them the benefit of the doubt but in spite of it, what pains me the most is that this is actually not the first time that it has happened. We've been friends for 12 or more years yet it appears that we were only close during the four years that we were together. And when we stepped into college it was as if I was slowly eased out of their lives. Again, I can blame all of this on myself by being busy with a lot of stuff but now in retrospect how can I say that I'm busy to them when they haven't asked me if I was available in the first place?

And I guess that's the harsh reality of life. When people don't need you anymore or when they determine that you're not fun to be with or when they simply forget about you then you are nothing but a mere name in their phonebooks, in their email address list only to be remembered when they need it.

I wrote a post with the feelings eerily similar to this one but with a very different feeling

Sunday, April 6, 2008

Bakasyon!

Akalain mong pangalawang summer season ko na pala to habang isang empleyado, at sa dalawang taon na yun ay iisang beses pa lang talaga ako nakakapagbakasyon? Hmmm bakit kaya… well, dahil long weekend ngayon nagkaron ako ng oras para mapagtanto ang mga bagay-bagay at ito ang aking naisip:

1. Pera –malamang naman meron ka kung kaya’t nagbabalak kang magbakasyon, kaso minsan hindi kaya ng budget mo yung mga nais mong puntahan.

2. Kasama – malamang may barkada ka, kaso naman madalas dahil puro bagito pa kayo sa trabaho at feeling nyo lahat kayo ay may kailangan patunayan sa inyong pinapapasukang trabaho ay hindi nyo magawang makapagplano ng matino para lang sa bakasyon. Syempre nga naman hindi naman masayang magbakasyon kung mag-isa ka lang di ba? Kung ganun na rin lang aba e di matutulog na lang ako sa bahay ko no? hehehe. Kaya nga minsan kahit na masama na ang loob ko na parang lahat ng inaaya ko ay hindi pwede oks lang alam ko naman na ang dahilan ay ang:

3. Trabaho – ano pa nga ba. Ang pinakadahilan yata para sa lahat ng nagpapakapawis at nagpapakapagod para lamang kumita. Bagaman sa simula pa lamang ng taon ay may ginagawa na kaming kung tawagin ay “leave plan” kadalasan ay hindi ito nasusunod para sa mga tulad kong bagito pa sa trabaho. Mayroon kasing mga susulpot dyan na hindi mo inaasahan. Mga system down-times, mga kakaibang trabaho at kung ano ano pa. Kahit may panggastos ka dahil sa kakaovertime mo, minsan iisipin mo na itutulog mo na lang yung mga long weekend na katulad ng ganito kaysa sa magbakasyon lalo na’t alam mong may nakaantay na naman sa yong trabaho pagbalik na pagbalik mo. Kaya bat ka pa nga naman magbabakasyon?

Well, siguro yun lang talaga ang hirap sa mga kabatch at mga kaibigan ko, sobrang tindi ng will-to-succeed e nakakalimutan na naming aliwin ang mga sarili namin ang laking pressure kasi para sa isa’t-isa sa amin

Kaya naiintindihan ko kayo, pero syempre nagbabakasakali pa rin ako na baka mayroong magaaya ng bakasyon dyan o baka naman may libre sabihin nyo lang at tignan natin kung di sagabal ang pera, kasama, at ang trabaho. hehehe.

Friday, September 28, 2007

at the forefront of civilization

(fpr pictures, just see the photos page)

I just came back from a trip to, borrowing from Mike, the "forefront" of Civilization. The seat of power of a civilization that has been at the forefront of advancement in early times and is now the main proponent of cheap "mass market" goods in the world. A place of many firsts - paper, gunpowder, siopao, pansit, etc.. (oddly enough, even a "good" senator even points to them as the forefathers of corruption).

We (that would be me, Abby and Mike) went to Beijing last week to attend a training for the company were all working for and we immediately grabbed the opportunity to experience to immerse ourselves in the place and the culture by going a day earlier than scheduled. It was a day of many firsts as this was my first trip out of Southeast Asia (and my first international trip not going to Malaysia - finally!) and my first trip on business class - and what better way to experience your firsts with Cathay Pacific as your plane (you gotta love their business class and their lounges- though the only point of comparison i have is that of the local co-shared flights that we had to travel in). Our adventure started even before we arrived at Beijing when we started being too comfortable in the Cathay Pacific Lounge (the Pier, I think) and we forgot that our flight was already in ten minutes. we had to rush to the other side of the airport (much like in amazing race, but without the cameras and the bulky backpacks). We did reach it in time and were cozily settled in our seats when we found out we had to transfer to another plane. oh well... the rest of the day proved to be uneventful except for the fact that i lost my set of keys somewhere in our transit and so had to have the concierge force open my locks.

The following day, while most of you might still be asleep we were already on our way to see and experience one of the greatest wonders of the world, the Great Wall and boy what an experience it was. Starting from the cable car ride to the base of the wall (you can actually walk to the base from the parking area, though it might take you about three hours or so according to our guide) up to the point where tourists can't go any further, you will not help but feel overwhelmed by the experience and be marveled by the ingenuity and the hardships that the chinese had to go through in order to erect this massive structure. I won't go into narrating the events of our tour but for those interested to know, we went to the Mutianyu part of the wall (there were also Badaling and the other one i forgot), we chose the right part of the wall (you can go two directions) and the time it took us for a complete roundabout was around two hours (complete with the rest stops and the picture taking)

The rest of the week was actually spent on the course and a few trips to the ultimate "Divisoria" one can ever go to. Though I would still believe that for amateur hagglers like me Divisoria will still be the cheapest way to buy clothes, Silk Market is still the place where haggling is a precious commodity in order for you to maximise your RMBs. Imagine being offered an adidas jacket for 600 RMB (roughly 3,600 pesos) and bringing it down to just 80 RMB! (480 pesos). So here's a warning to all those planning to go there, if you are not too keen on haggling or afraid of too much personal contact with the sellers (i tell you, they have vise-grips for hands there) or may appear to look interested in everything that's offered to you, then Silk Market is definitely not for you.

Anyhow, moving to a different topic, I was quite surprised with Beijing, they had ginormous buildings (i mean really BIG buildings, both horizontally and vertically and space-wise) as well as expansive roads (a normal road there is about 6 lanes + the bicycle lanes). Makes you really wonder why can't Metro Manila have the same good urban planning as KL and Beijing have. It is also interesting to note that most of the cars we saw there were MBs, Audis and BMWs (made me wonder if they also pirate cars there.. hmmm). So it really appeared the Beijing is a very nice and modern place to live in (though I can't say the same for their subways). Maybe it had also something to do with a certain big event going to be held their next year. (I think its called Olympics..)

On to another topic (apologies for having no coherency for this post). I will not comment on the training itself as it is supposed to be proprietary (as students of Sir Salita would know what's with proprietary stuff) I will also not be talking about the people i worked with there for a few reasons: 1.) I didn't get to bond with them as much as I did with the people in Gourami. 2.) It would be improper since they might misinterpret what I'll post (if anyone ever gets to read this) and 3.) some were really full of shit that others might misinterpret Shell people in general.

So I guess basically that's my Beijing post. I really do wanna thank my two companions, Mike and Abby, my fellow Gouramians - something that really connects the three of us in a lot of aspects (in fairview!!!) hehehe, to our other compatriot Chito who I learned a lot from and totally enjoyed going around with, to another fellow Gouramian and the only Finance person aside from me, MingYao Tan, to ChangLong and Haomin - my groupmates who were the silent ones, to my other groupmates in Phoenix, and to the other delegates a big thanks for the memories and the learnings!

post script..

Beijing's self-proclaimed Prince of Party brought us to this club called Mix and it was a nice place, but I must say, the Chinese youth does have a strange way of dancing.. (not that I am a good one either)Ü

Monday, August 27, 2007

One of the hardest things to do: buy shoes...

I suddenly realized what's one of the hardest things to do in life, and that's to shop for ladies' shoes! Haay. grabe, napapagod talaga ako. I'm currently here in KL for a workshop and guess what, before I went here, I volunteered to buy my mom, my dad, tere, manang, and tita michele sandals since its cheaper here (gee, what a great idea!)... but i am on my second day already and after about 10 hours of going around three malls I've only bought one for my mom and my dad (kay daddy kasi madali lang) for the rest it has really been very difficult since when you choose for a shoe you try to place yourself in that person and think about what she likes and what she doesn't and boy, its really very difficult. sana bukas makahanap na ako para hindi naman ako bigo sa pangako ko. hehe. any suggestions?

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speaking of pasalubong, tumawag pinsan ko (yari tayo sa roaming charges nyan. hehe) at syempre humingi din ng pasalubong.. at syempre naman, pag binigyan ko sya kailangan bigyan ko yung siyam ko pang mga pinsan.. any suggestions din? hehe

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lastly, i walked to petronas twin towers just tonight and wow, ang taas talaga nya. pangit nga lang pic ko kasi pagabi na and bad timing dahil bawal ang mga bisita pag monday. sayang naman. pumunta na lang ako dun sa katabing mall na parang greenbelt sa profile ng mga shops. at syempre wala pa atang 5 mins ay lumabas na ako dahil alam ko naman na wala akong mabibili dun. hehehe.

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ayan, maguupdate na lang ako pag may kaupdate update na. hehehe

Monday, July 9, 2007

Tagged!

Instruction:
Each player of this game starts with 6 weird things about you. People who get tagged need to write a list of their own 6 weird things in their blog as well as state the rule clearly. In the end, you need to choose 6 people to be tagged and list their names. Don’t forget to leave a comment that says you are tagged in their comments and tell them to read your blog.

Tagged by Ian (at dahil si Ian to, kailangan pagbigyan. hehehe).

1. I prefer to eat viands with ketchup

2. I love James Michener but I only have 3 of his numerous books

3. I read William Caunitz novels (police-procedurals from an unknown author).

4. I used to play Civilization (I and II) for 12 straight hours

5. I usually get sleepier when I drink coffee.

6. And speaking of coffee, have been avoiding entering a high-class coffee shop (Starbucks, etc) up until now.

Finished!

I tagged: Francis, Iris, Owen, Rach, Migs, Jake

Wednesday, January 10, 2007